Tired of self-care routines that never last?

 

 Say hello to self care habits that stick! Our self care membership, will give you the exact tools to build a sustainable practice that fits your busy schedule—plus, ready-to-use self-care activities so you never have to wonder what to do next.

 

You know you need to be consistent when it comes to self care but where do you start?

 

You’ve spent way too much time trying to figure it out—researching, squeezing it into your schedule, only to be left overwhelmed and and burnout. 

This isn’t what self care should feel like.

If you’ve ever thought to yourself, “Why can I stay committed to self care?” or “I’m just not good at self care”, you’re not alone.

Right now, you’re stuck somewhere between wanting to take better care of yourself and not knowing what to do.

 

Come to think of it, if you didn’t have to spend hours searching for self care ideas, you would be a little better at doing self care.

You’re ready to have a self care practice that nurtures you and feels easy.

You need a holistic approach to self care.

The real reason your self care routine isn’t working isn’t because you don’t have enough time. Self care shouldn’t be saved for the start or the end of your day but no one is going to tell you that.

Think of it like this: You wouldn’t starve all day and then feast at 8:00 pm. So why are you doing this with self care? 

If you’ve been thinking “There’s got to be a better way”. That’s because there is.

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This is your moment to shift away from that self care routine that hasn’t been working for you.

If you’re going to start taking care of yourself seriously, you need to understand that self care happens even in the moments you aren’t physically doing an activity.

If you’ve ever done a self care activity but didn’t feel that great afterwards, you probably know what we’re talking about. Self care is more than activities, it’s the practical expression of self love. 

You need to learn the fundamentals of self love so you can create a self care practice that fits your needs. 

If you’re tired of generic self care advice, we’re going to show you how to start creating a practice that truly supports your well-being.

 

I love it! You have helped me reconnect with myself with the smallest things. Thank you so much for reminding me I come first no matter what.

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The Self Care Library

the self care membership that takes the guesswork out of self care

  • 6+ bite-sized lessons that provide you with step by step self care fundamentals to build your self worth and confidence
  • An ever-growing resource library with journal prompts, worksheets, guides and activities to make self care easier & faster than ever!
  • Access to a private community with other women for accountability, connection and support, so you’ll never feel alone.
  • Members-only advice column to help you work through challenges or just get some stuff off your chest
  • Exclusive blog content to help you dive deeper into self care, wellness, and lifestyle and give you relevant tools on demand
  • Monthly newsletter to stay up to date and be the first to know what’s happening in the library.
  • New worksheets, activities and tools every month, making sure you always have up to date and relevant resources to cater to your self care

See for yourself

sneak peek inside

and so much more…

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No more endless searching for ideas

proven strategies to build your self worth

a thriving community filled with other women on their self care journey

done-for you self-care activities at your fingertips

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The Monthly Membership For The Self Care Girlies

Become a Member

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Library Portal & Course

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DFY Self Care Activites

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Exclusive Blog Content

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Advice Column

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Monthly Newsletter Emails

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Private Member Community

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Affirmation of the Day *

$9/ Month

Your Self Care – Your Terms

Cancel Anytime Guarantee

 

Some memberships make you signup to a six month or year long commitment but not us. Enjoy peace of mind with our cancel anytime guarantee. If you feel the membership isn’t the right fit, you can cancel at any time with just a few clicks. We’re here to support you, whenever you need us!

IF YOU’RE ASKING YOURSELF…

I already bought so many things that didn’t help me- why do I need the Self Care Library?

Then let me tell y0u this..

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This is nothing like the generic self-care advice you've heard before.
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This will allow you to get the accountability, practice, and feedback you need to become an even better version of yourself - a self-loving and self-caring individual with a fulfilling life.
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This doesn't only give you theory and knowledge, it also gives you it also gives you done-for-you tools such as printable worksheets,planners, and journal prompts that you can use for your self care routine instantly.
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You aren't in this alone anymore. Be part of a supportive community of amazing women that are on the same journey of self-discovery and self-improvement as you.

This costs less than a couple cups of coffee at starbucks but unlike the coffee, this has the potential to change your whole life by taking you from overwhelmed and burnout  to balaned, recharged anf fully confident in your self.

I realized I needed to become my own person. I needed to have my own dreams, wants, and needs. Now, I am in a great career field. I have stopped living for everyone else and have regained my self worth.

I am so convinced of the method and tools shared in the library because they’ve helped me love and treat myself better.

This self care membership includes everything you need to build a sustainable self care practice.

Hey hey! I’m Destiny Holmes, the brain behind The Self Care Library.

I’m a self-care enthusiast with a mission to empower women around the world to prioritize themselves.

When it comes to learning something new, I’m the type of person that learns the key points and keeps it moving. But when it came to self care it was different (probably because I desperately needed it after a bad breakup).

I needed to learn to love myself but what I really learned was the mindset shifts needed to make self care work and what was missing from the typical “self care routine”. The Self Care Library is where I share everything I learned on my self care journey so that you can too learn what’s need for real lasting sustainable self care.

 

This membership isn’t for you if…

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You’re not ready to invest time in your own well-being.
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You’re looking for instant results without putting in consistent effort.
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You prefer a one-size-fits-all approach to self-care.
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You aren’t interested in developing a personalized, sustainable routine.
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You want a temporary fix instead of a lasting transformation.

This membership is for you if…

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You’re ready to create lasting self-care habits that fit into your busy life.
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You’re tired of quick fixes and are looking for a holistic, long-term approach.
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You tired of not knowing what to do when it comes to self care.
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You crave structure and guidance in your self-care routine.
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You’re committed to personal growth and want tools to help you thrive.

THE FAQS

HOW MUCH SUPPORT IS INCLUDED?

There is a 24h written support included which means that you will get all your questions answered within our members-only support group within 1 day

I’M JUST GETTING STARTED ON MY SELF CARE JOURNEY. WILL THIS STILL WORK OR ME?

Yes, The Self Care Library is perfect for beginners. It will give you all the tools to make sure you build the proper foundation for creating a self care practice that nurtures you.

I’M NOT TECH SAVVY. DO I NEED A BUNCH OF TOOLS TO MAKE THIS WORK?

No. The Self Care Library is very user friendly. All the resources can be downloaded or printed for ease of use. And if you wan’t to keep it really simple, just grab a notebook and get to work.

I’VE BEEN ON MY SELF CARE JOURNEY FOR AWHILE. WILL I STILL FIND VALUE?

No matter what stage of your journey youre on The Self Care Library will help you understand yourself better and love yourself more. If you are looking for smoehting specific. Visit our shop for curated resources in every area of life.

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER I JOIN?

Once you’re officially a member, you’ll receive instant access to your membership portal. From there, you can get started immediately – and come and say to amazing women in our excluive community! 

CAN I CANCEL THE MEMBERSHIP

Yes… but we will be sad to see you go. You can cancel any time right from your account but once you do,  you’ll lose access to the membership portal and community. We welcome you back anytime.

Imagine being able to transform your self-care practice by having a source to get all your self care activities from. No more endless searching for self-care ideas or wasted time, just instant access to self-care resources at your fingertips.