for women who are done putting themselves last

You’ve taken care of everyone else. This year, it’s your turn.

Community, support, and everything you need to build the kind of relationship with yourself that actually changes how you move through the world.

The Self Care Studio is currently closed. It is being revamped.

introducing…

The Self Care Studio

Everything you need for your self-care journey, all in one place.

No more deciding which course to buy first. Every course and experience in the Self Caring Co. library is here and so is the roadmap telling you where to start. Begin wherever you are right now, work through them at your own pace, and come back whenever you need a reset.

Self Care Series: Confidence Edition

Everyday Self Care

Rituals, Not Routines

The Self Care Reset

Collected Confidence

The Idea Collection

Boundaries 101

The Personal Standards Playbook

Before You Set That Boundary

14 Day Self Care Series

📝 Digital Journal

A dedicated space to check in with yourself, process what’s coming up, and think whenever and wherever.

✨ Evidence File

Your personal proof that you’re doing better than you think. Every win, shift, and growth moment in one place.

📚 Reading Recommendations

Normally exclusive to Everyday Self Care. 

You could purchase Everyday Self Care seperately for $147 or get it here.

🤓 Guides & Worksheets

Practical resources, all built on the Self Caring Co. philosophy so everything actually works together.

🧭 Season Roadmap

Get a personalized roadmap with steps and milestones so you always know what’s next and can actually feel yourself moving forward.

💬 Community Forums

Ask questions, share wins, celebrate progress, and connect with other women focused on self care in a judgment-free space.

📅 Monthly 1:1 Check-ins

Real support, tailored to you — available every month without the pressure of booking a call or showing up.

🌸 Quarterly Self Care Weeks

Four times a year, we run a live Self Care Week together with daily check-ins, accountability, and a reason to actually finish what you started.

This membership is for you if…

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You want real support available when you need it, without the pressure of keeping up
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You're great at taking care of everyone else. Taking care of yourself? That's where it gets complicated.
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There's a version of you — calmer, clearer, more confident — and you know she's in there somewhere.
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You've been "about to get serious about this" for longer than you'd like to admit.

Meet destiny holmes | Your Founder & Friend inside the studio

I’m just a girl who learned how to put herself first and now I can’t shut up about it.”

Before Self Caring Co. there was a version of me who stopped doing everything she loved for a woman who wasn’t thinking about her half as much as she was thinking about them.

I stopped hanging out with my friends, let go of my hobbies and I had no idea what I needed because I’d been too busy trying to be what someone else wanted that I’d completely lost myself.

When it ended, I had the rudest wake up call and went on an intense year long journey of rebuilding myself. Slowly, imperfectly and without a roadmap. and when I came out on the other side, I wanted to let every woman have what I had found.

That’s what The Self Care Studio is. Everything I learned and am continuting learning with me by your side.

“Destiny helped me to rediscover my self-worth. I realized whether I chose to stay with my husband or not wasn’t the issue. I needed to have my own dreams, wants, and needs.

Now I’m in a great career field, I have stopped living my life for my husband, and have regained my self worth.

- Jae

I joined because I have been following Destiny from a long time and her work helps me . And it feels good to be connected to like path people who are trying to prioritise themselves.

- Kanu

Frequently asked Questions

What if new courses are added?

They’re included in your membership automatically. No extra charge, ever.

I have a different question.

Great! Send us a message using the message box on the bottom right of this page (the one with our logo) or email us at [email protected].