The self paced reset women are taking to finally make self-care feel simple, personal, and non-negotiable
Say goodby to “I’ll do it later,” routines you can’t stick with, and never feeling like you have the time…
and hello to small shifts that help you prioritize yourself—without guilt, overwhelm, or needing a perfect routine.
(Sign me up today for only $7)
Let us guess…
You’ve “tried self-care” before—but nothing really stuck.
Maybe you started a new routine and dropped it after a few days.
Maybe you told yourself you’d make “more time” for it… but couldn’t actually find any.
So even with the best intentions, you still haven’t figured out how to truly put yourself first.
And it left you feeling more frustrated, more disconnected, and honestly… more unsure of where to go from here.
So now, you’re still drained.
Still overwhelmed.
Still wondering why self-care feels so hard—when everyone else makes it look so easy.
Let’s talk about why self-care never quite sticks.
Truth is… there’s a lot that can get in the way.
But after supporting women through this shift (and being there ourselves), we’ve narrowed it down to 3 common blocks:
1. You dont’ know where to start (Are you making it more complicated than it should be?)
2. You’re holding onto beliefs that don’t support you (like guilt, perfectionisn or pressure)
3. You think it has to look a certain way
(aka trying to “get it right” instead of tuning into what you actually need)
And by letting these 3 things get in tyhe way you, you won’t ever get to the point where self care feels sustainable, personal, or built for you.
This is for the part of you that’s quietly aching for more.
Because althoguht self care hasn’t clicked in the past, that doesn’t mean you’ve given up on it.
You know it’s important.
You want to feel more grounded, more centered, more like yourself again.
You just need a way to do that without guilt, pressure, or the need for a perfect routine.
That’s why you’re here.
And that’s why we created The Self-Care Shift.
So if you want to…
✔️ Finally make self-care a priority—even with a full schedule and zero extra hours in the day
✔️ Feel more grounded, clear, and connected—without needing a “perfect” routine
✔️ Build simple, sustainable self-care that actually works for you (not someone else’s idea of it)
But don’t want to…
✘ Waste time on wellness plans that feel overwhelming, rigid, or unrealistic
✘ Keep putting yourself last and telling yourself “I’ll start later”
✘ Fall off track again because you didn’t have the right support or structure in place
THIS IS WHAT YOU’VE BEEN WAITING FOR
The Self Care Shift
Inside this self-paced, no-fluff workshop, you’ll learn how to simplify your self-care, reconnect with yourself, and build a rhythm of support that actually works—for your real life, your energy, and your needs.
🧭 The Self Audit— A self-audit process that helps you get clear on where you are, what’s missing, and what kind of support you actually need—so you stop guessing and finally know where to begin.
🧠 The Belief Cleanse — A step-by-step process to help you release guilt, internal pressure, and outdated beliefs around what it means to take care of yourself—so you can stop putting yourself last and start showing up for yourself.
📝 The Care Code™ — A personal, feel-good self-care plan that includes self care non-negotiables, a self-commitment statement, and a powerful reminder to return to —something you’ll actually want to stick with.
🃏 BONUS #1: Reframe Cards — 20 printable mindset cards to shift the way you think about self-care, rest, and your worth—perfect for your mirror, journal, or desktop.
📱 BONUS #1: Create-Your-Own Phone Wallpaper (Canva Template) — A beautiful, editable design so you can take your self care reminders with you wherever you go.
(Sign me up today for only $7)
By the end of this workshop, you will…
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Know exactly where your time and energy are going—and what needs to shift
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Understand and release the beliefs that’s been holding you back from putting yourself first
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Walk away with your own self-care non-negotiables and a personal commitment to honor them
don’t just takae our word for it…
I felt like it was hard to find the time for self care. Now I realize that self care can be different things and I learned how to prioritize myself.
“I never really thought much about self-care. Now I feel like it’s a needed part of life. It’s not as complex as I was making it out to be, and I’m glad I was able to realize that. I’d tell anyone thinking about joining that it’s a great idea. You’ll learn more than you expect, and I liked that it’s self-paced. You’re not rushed or trying to keep up with anyone else — it’s about you.”
I know how important it is but I often break promises to myself or procrastinate telling myself I will do it later. Now I am making it (self care) a priority.
This is your before-and-after moment.
meet the host
Hey, I’m Destiny Holmes.
your go-to guide for making self-care simple, doable, and something you actually stick with.
Because the truth is, most women don’t need more self-care ideas. They need clarity.
Because what really makes self-care stick isn’t more candles, routines, or checklists—it’s:
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Knowing where to start (without feeling overwhelmed)
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Letting go of the guilt and beliefs that make taking care of yourself hard
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Finding a version of self-care that’s actually yours—not instagram story worthy
Without this, self care will never feel sustainable.
You’ve spent so much time showing up for everyone else,
now this is your space to show up for you.
If you’re ready to return to yourself—one small, loving shift at a time, I invite you to join me for this 3 day experience.
Ready to stop overthinking and finally make self care work for you?
You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need a place to start. The Self Care Shift will help you rewire the way you think about self-care — because it starts in your mindset, not your calendar.
(Sign me up today for only $7)
