GUIDED EXPERIENCE | STARTS JULY 1 | SELF-PACED, NO LIVE CALLS
Boundaries Redefined

Redefine what boundaries really are and learn how to set clear standards before they’re ever tested. Plus, you’ll leave with practical scripts you can actually use in real-life conversations, no matter who you’re talking to.
(price increases to $47 July 1, 2025)

Sick of feeling guilty every time you try to speak up or set a boundary?
Worried that setting boundaries will make things awkward or worse, damage your relationships?
Wish you had a simple way to set boundaries without feeling like the bad guy?
Inside Boundaries Redefined,
Use your internal cues; discomfort, anxiety, or resentment, as guides to set clear boundaries ahead of time
Build a personal set of standards before you’re in a tough spot or emotional moment
Speak up without sounding harsh, vague, or apologetic
Use practical scripts to communicate your boundaries with confidence
Start creating more space, time, and peace in your daily life just by knowing where you stand
“Sometimes it’s easy to feel that we already know what setting boundaries looks like but honestly, for me, I truly didn’t. Going through this workshop has truly been an eye-opener for me, and it’s something that I keep coming back to.“
” You’ve taken something that seems overwhelming and rude to someone who used to be a complete people pleaser like me and made it feel empowering.“
Boundaries Redefined
You’ll walk away with a clear understanding of what boundaries really are, how to create them before conflict hits, and exactly what to say when it’s time to speak up.

DAY 1
Notice Your Cues
We’ll start by redefining what boundaries really are and uncovering why they’ve felt so hard to set.

DAY 2
Set Your New Standard
Next, you’ll learn how to tune into your own cues and create clear standards before things get uncomfortable.

DAY 3
Say It With Confidence
Then you’ll shape those standards into practical scripts you can actually use in everyday conversations with clarity and confidence.


meet the host
Hey there, I’m Destiny Holmes.
For years, I had no idea how to set boundaries and it showed. I found myself in painful situations, overextending, staying silent, and slowly realizing I wasn’t just being “nice”.
That all changed when I began studying boundaries seriously. Over two years, I dove deep into the psychology, patterns, and power behind them and started applying what I learned to my own life. The results were undeniable: deeper self-respect, healthier relationships, and a sense of confidence I hadn’t felt before.
I’m so excited to be hosting this workshop because no one teaches us how to set boundaries. We’re just expected to figure it out.
Thanks for letting me lead you into better boundaries and a better life.
HAVE A QUESTION?
Why aren't there any live calls?
We know life is full. Whether you’re juggling work, caregiving, or just trying to catch a moment to breathe. That’s why this workshop is self-paced.
No scheduling stress. No rushing to show up. Just a calm, no-pressure way to participate on your time.
Many past students shared that they loved this format because it allowed them to reflect more deeply without worrying about missing anything.
What if I fall off track?
This is a self-led experience, which means you can move through the content at your own pace, in your own time, no hour long calls. There are 3 short impactful written lessons with guided homework for you to walk through. However, you’ll get access lesson reminder and a supportive community to help you stay on track.
Do I need anything special to participate in the workshop ?
Nope. All you need is something to write with (digital or paper) and a quiet-ish space to reflect. You don’t need to be “good at boundaries” or have done any personal development before.
Bonus: If you’re a student of our self care membership, you’ll be able to do the daily homework using our journaling feature (no pen or paper needed)
How much time will it take to go through this?
Most people spend about 20–30 minutes per day with the material.
How long do I get access for?
You will retain access to the workshop one year from date of purchase.
I have one last different question. How can I contact you?
We’re here to help. You can email us at [email protected] or use the contact form and we’ll get back to you within 1–2 business days.
Ready to stop shrinking?
For the cost of takeout or another self-help book you won’t finish, you can create the foundation for the boundaries you’ve been craving.