COLLECTED CONFIDENCE
The simple, no-fuss way to remember you're actually amazing (even when your brain tells you otherwise)
This $9 mini course shows you how to create your own Evidence/Confidence File, a personal collection of wins, kind words, and proof that you matter (so you can stop doubting yourself and start remembering your worth).
Use code: WORST26
quick question:
When was the last time you actually remembered something good about yourself?
You’re out here showing up, getting clients wins, being featured on podcasts, and doing hard things…but do you remember ANY of it when you need to?
If you’re like the rest of us, you’re probably,
Replaying every "mistake" on a loop but forgetting all the good stuff
Feeling like you're not doing enough (even though you're doing SO much!)
Brushing off compliments because you don't believe them
Comparing yourself to everyone else and coming up short
Forgetting how far you've come when business gets messy
And look, I get it. Your brain isn’t designed to hold onto the good stuff. It’s too busy worrying about everything and everyone else.
But what if you had a place where all your wins, kind words, and proof of your worth lived?
Right now, you're letting your best moments disappear into the void.
All those times someone said something kind about you, those challenges you overcame that show your resiliency, and accomplishments that deserve to go in your hall of fame?
They’re just… gone.
And meanwhile, you’re doubting yourself, feeling small, missing oppourtunities, and convinced everyone else has their business together, while you’re barely holding on.
It’s time you stop forgetting how amazing you are and start collecting the proof you need so it’s there when you need it most.
introducing…
Collected Confidence
A $9 mini course (bite-sized + easy to implement) that shows you how to create your own Evidence File, so you can boost your confidence, remember your worth, and actually see you’re doing better than you think!
How to set up your Evidence File
Create your Evidence / Confidence File in the format that fits you (notes app, journal, Google Doc — whatever).
What To Collect (and where to find it!)
so you’re not staring at a blank page wondering what counts
A simple, proven system you can use forever
Use code: WORST26
BEHIND THE COURSE
Hi [SFFIRSTNAME], I’m Destiny Holmes
Founder, friend, mom and very into all things self care,
I’m giving you a simple, low-effort system to start collecting proof of your awesomeness, without getting bogged down in a complicated tracking routine:
Imagine being able to…
Actually remember the good stuff instead of only dwelling on what went wrong
Believe compliments because you can see the pattern
Pull yourself out of negative spirals with receipts that contradict your brain
See your growth over time and realize you’ve come further than you think
Show up for yourself with more compassion and less criticism
And feel more confident in yourself all because you have proof you matter
This is for you if…
You struggle with self-doubt or feeling like you're not enough and could use some concrete reminders of your worth
You forget the good things about yourself almost immediately and only remember the "bad"
You want to take better care of yourself and build genuine confidence from the inside out
You're looking for a simple, low-maintenance practice that doesn't require daily effort or perfect consistency
Don’t let another good moment slip away!
Get Collected Confidence, and I’ll show you just how easy it can be to collect proof of your worth and finally give yourself credit for all the amazing things about you
Free for The Worst Day Business Bundle Friends
Frequently asked Questions
Do I need a specific tool?
Nope. I’ll show you options and you can use whatever works best for you. Notes app, a journal, Google Docs, whatever you prefer.
Isn’t this just… patting myself on the back?
Not at all! This is about taking care of yourself and your mental health. It’s giving yourself the same kindness you’d give a friend who was doubting herself.
I don’t have time to update this everyday.
Good news: you don’t have to. I’ll show you how to make this work with minimal time investment, we’re talking 10 minutes a week, max.
I already journal. Is this the same thing?
Not quite. Journaling is for processing thoughts and feelings. Your Evidence File is specifically for collecting proof of your worth and progress. And since most of us have moments where we forget we’re doing okay, this gives you something tangible to look at during those moments.
What if I don’t have anything good to include?
Trust me, you do. You’re just not noticing it orrr you’re dismissing things as “not a big deal.” Part of this course is learning what actually counts (spoiler: way more than you think).
I have a different question.
Great! Send us a message using the message box on the bottom right of this page (the one with our logo) or email us at support@selfcaringco.com.
P.S. Still on the fence? Think about the last time you felt like you weren’t doing enough. Now imagine having a file full of proof that you are. Is that worth $9? I think so. Join here